‘Look for people with different expectations of you. Don’t play by other people’s rules.’
Every day you think about the past, or what is going to happen in the future, you lose that actual day you’re living right now.
‘People try to connect over the whole planet, with all these stupid little things. And then they run out of energy and they’re all by themselves.’
We can feel that you’re opposed to it. But the outcome will be much better than you think. Better opportunities, less challenges.
It’s not that the more suffering I see, the more compassionate I am. Because then being compassionate turns over into, ‘I can’t take it anymore. I have seen too much of it.’
People are on an experience to learn something that they need to learn, you can’t take it off them. The more support you put into it, the less he will learn, the less of an experience he will have.
You don’t need this at the moment. You would attract someone that you don’t want.
You are carrying too much, the weight of the trauma. The weight comes from the way you look at things. Experiencing things on this level, it’s too heavy for you to carry.
‘If you’re sensitive to these kinds of things, it is unbearable.’
‘You come into a family to learn some things, but you should not be too caught up in the patterns that build up out of that.’
‘There will be new forests growing; if they don’t cut them down again.’
‘If the priests thought someone was behaving badly, or someone was having a different opinion, they were sentenced to death.’
‘I might just as well go like this, with a big bang.’ Like, live on stage. You would understand because you actually spent several lifetimes together.
It is their turn to learn. It’s not yours. It’s not your job. If you do the problem-solving, you will attract only problems and people with problems.
All the people living closely with the environment knew about it. They thrived on the thought. ‘We could come back. We could make this place better.’
'People say that these places are about healing.
It’s far from that. It has nothing, nothing to do with healing. It’s about compassion, forgiveness and patience.'
Our friend likes the challenges, the fights.
She's like: ‘I’ll make you so small! You walk on the lawn, you’ll feel like you’re in the jungle.’
Humankind evolves — some of them.
And the knowledge that they had does not get lost.
'You were ready to teach, to show more. He was not ready to take it. Too afraid. Too many new influences, too many new experiences. It’s all too much for some people.'
'Boundary' would be the wrong word. A boundary would mean you don’t respect each other, you limit each other.